Child Care Advice

I am often asked for child care advice
from parents and other care givers.  
Here are some of the questions along
with my advice.

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Dear Ms. Danielle,

Question:
My son won't sleep all night.  He
wakes up around two every
morning.  He's four months old.  He
goes to sleep around ten pm but
wakes up without fail every night.  
I'm exhausted.  What should I do?

Answer to come...


Question:
My nephew is 7 - he's extremely
spoiled. What should I do when he
acts up.  His mother (my sister in
law) is very sensitive.

Answer:
You should to be sensitive when talking
to any mother about their child.  When
you approach your sister in law about
the behavior that you feel is making
your nephew spoiled be specific.

Calling a child spoiled s very broad and
I would need to know the behavior in
order to give you a more precise
answer.  She will also need to know
what "specifically" the child is doing that
makes him spoiled.  Remember, we all
spoil our children in some way.  

My advice is to put it in terms of "bad
manners" and "good manners" in that
children need to learn to behave in
socially acceptable ways.  No one wants
to be around a child that has bad
manners.

You could discuss manners with your
sister in law and try to base your
advice on the golden rules:

Respect your elders
Keep your hands to yourself
Use inside voices when inside
Do not touch things that do not belong
to you etc.

These are some of mine but every
household should have golden rules
and they should be followed.  

Teaching good manner and rules have
to begin at home and teaching good
manners  includes the homes of
extended family members and friends.  

I hope that I have helped you please let
me know.    
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